Wednesday, May 1, 2013

Finding Strength in the Sunset


Yesterday I spent alot of time communicating with friends and family from California on the computer. Because of Skype I am able to see my friends and family's familiar sunny decks, backyards, and my favorite beaches in the background as I am talking to them. It is for the most part wonderful to be able to look at the screen and through this "window" across the world to all things familiar. The only problem is that everything and everyone seems so close, but they are in reality so far away.

At the end of the day, I went outside to take out the trash and this is what I saw. I realized in this moment that while I was spending my time and energy peering into that window of artificial reality with images of my native California, I was missing my new, beautiful life in Sweden.

When I made the choice to move from California to Sweden I never thought that I would be living such a conflicted existence. It seems like every day I am struggling between trying to adapt to the new community and landscape where I live my life today, and at the same time holding on close to my identity as what I have always been, a Californian.

Some days I just feel over come with this internal tug of war, the struggle of living between two different worlds. But when I stood by the trash cans and looked at the sunset on the lake, for a moment my mind was still. No matter where in the world I am I can find strength in the sunset.


In the Morning Light


The sun is warm. The air is sweet. It's a fresh spring day in the Swedish Countryside.

Tuesday, April 23, 2013

Scandinavian Spa Culture: Fantasy and Reality



This is a promotional photo from 1967 for (Finnish Textile and Home Design mainstay) Marimekko's launch of branded manufactured homes in Finland. To me this photo of the sauna really shows the image I had of Scandinavian Spa Culture before I moved to Sweden. In America, because of the popularity of the "Swedish Massage" and because of the fact that  Swedes have more paid vacation time (and benefits) we see Sweden, as well as the rest of Scandinavia as being an authority on Spa/wellness ritual and culture.

When I came to visit family members in the little village I now call home, this Scandinavian Spa Culture ideal was reinforced for me by the fact that there is a floating sauna on the lake in the village. I thought I had arrived in life balance/wellness/spa heaven. It was this impression that prompted many fantasies and day dreams about what my life in Sweden could be like after I arrived back in San Francisco.






Now that I am here as a resident of my Swedish village of wellness and tranquility I have had to deal with some realities that are not in line with the first impression that I had about Swedish Spa Culture. Number one being, besides the existence of the floating sauna (which is simply fantastic and pictured above) there are not any spas in the area that really live up to my expectation of what Scandinavian Spa Culture would be like. Perhaps the fact that I am a spa junky and have been to some of the most exclusive spa resorts in America could be my problem. I admit I have been spoiled. I had a day pass to the Burke Williams Spa in the Westfield Shopping Center right up the stairs from where I worked (pictured below).





My standards could also be what they are because of my life changing experience from the massage ,full body exfoliation and day pass to the spa faculties at the Spa Grande At the Grand Wailea Hotel on Maui, Hawaii (pictured below).








With all those fantastic spa experiences I have had, my impression of Scandinavian Spa culture offered something totally different than any first class luxury spa of any kind. The element that Scandinavian Spa Culture has that you can find nowhere else in the world is this: the simplistic beauty of its natural surroundings. To me the forest, the lake and stillness of rural Sweden does more for me than any American man made spa experience could ever do.

I found out recently from a neighbor who grew up vacationing here as a child in the 20's and 30's that our little village used to have a train station and people would come from Malmo and other neighboring cities for rest and relaxation. It has been 30 years since they have closed that train station and the villages’ charming hotels, resorts and spas have gone out of business and fallen into disrepair. Next year there will be a new train station in town and I see an unmistakable opportunity to revitalize the spa/wellness culture of our village. Perhaps it's me that will have to make my impression of Scandinavian Spa culture come true for my village......