Thursday, January 31, 2013

Kaffe Paus (Coffee Break)



It's 9:30 am in Sweden so that means it's time for a "Kaffe Paus" or "Fika" (both terms are Swedish for Coffee Break). This is the time when I make my lists of things to do and think a bit about what I have done so far. The coffee is strong and my energy is at its all time high. This is my most favorite time of the day, anything seems possible!

The rain from the night has left my front yard totally free of snow. The sight of the green grass looks like spring’s little peep show from my kitchen window. The wind rips through the naked tree branches; winter's way of saying "Not so fast, it's still only January".....

Wednesday, January 30, 2013

The Swedish Winter is No Joke


Here I am at about 3:30pm, half way around the lake near my house in the Skane region of Sweden. This was one of my first runs since coming back from my trip to California. Even though it was -4 I convinced myself that I would be fine wearing my running shoes. Since winter has set in I have not really been able to get the same kind of workout I had been getting during all the other seasons. I have been resentful of having to wear snow boots because of how they limit my range of motion, so this time I just wore my cross trainers which was hugely stupid.

Around the time I took this photo I did notice that my socks were getting a little wet, but I charged through the workout anyway. When I returned home my feet were colder than I ever thought they could be. I had to put them under hot running water for about 15 minutes just to get them back to a normal temperature.

The moral to this story is the Swedish Winter is no joke. It does not do you any favors for being tired of it. You must dress accordingly and respect its power or you will be sorry.


Friday, January 25, 2013

The Sun Deck


    


              This is part of the succulent garden on the deck that overlooks the golf course at my Grandma Nancy's house in Seascape, California (more complete home tour coming soon!). These photos were taken at about 11am and as you can see the sunlight on the deck at this time during the day is ideal.
       

               My Grandma loves to sit on a chair near her picnic table and soak up the sun for all it's worth. The painting below was done by my Grandmother and chair in the painting is very similar to the chairs we sit in on her deck. When I asked her if she needed a hat or visor, she told me that at 89 years old she would take her chances with the UV exposure. She is kind hearted, sarcastic, creative, loving and funny as hell. I sat next to her in the sun and soaked her and the sun rays up as much as possible before returning to my new life in a very cold country.


   
              My Grandma Nancy is a painter. Even though her eyes are not as good as they once were she still says as we look out on the sun filled deck, “Oh look at the light, the way it hits there, that’s a painting!”.
      
            The way I see it everything in her house is inspirational. Because of the way she has always pointed out the beauty in everyday things, it makes me think the world itself is just a life full of paintings waiting to happen.




Monday, January 21, 2013

Russ' House of Wellness


The photo you see above was taken while I greeted the morning from my cousin's hot tub. Yes it's true; this is the view from the hot tub. Views like this are hard to come by and views like this from a hot tub are almost unheard of, even in California. The particular view you see here is a familiar one to me.This is the neighborhood where I grew up.

When I came to my cousin Russ' house I not only surprised him with my presence, but I also surprised him by staying at his house for 10 days in a row....Yes he loves me alot. Staying at his place is a special treat because, #1. I get to spend time with Russ, #2. I get to stay in my old neighborhood even though my parents sold the house over ten years ago, #3.Did I mention he has a hot tub?

We spent most of our time just catching up. We talked about events, past and future. He makes me different fresh juices with his new Christmas present: The world famous Vita mixer. It seems to me that Russ could be one of the most balanced and well rounded individuals I know. He always thinks thoroughly before making any judgments or decisions. When I was flying back to Sweden I read a magazine about meditation and self realization that he gave me and I came to the conclusion that Russ really does have it all together.

Now I have decided that anytime I feel stressed or anxious I will take some deep breaths and think about what advice Russ would give me on the matter at hand. He has given me the power to take control of my thoughts and the permission put energy into healing myself instead of wasting it on worry. I know I am not the only one who has benefited from Russ' calming presence. He works as a Therapist and gives so much of himself and his gift for healing people to his clients, as well as countless members of his family and friends.

Thanks for everything Russ, I love you!



Thursday, January 17, 2013

California House Tour #2: The Edde Residence: Rustic Charm meets Classic Refinement

This house belongs to my Grandma Edith and Papa Herb, otherwise known as the Eddes. My Grandmother Edith is from Tucumcari New Mexico. Her father came to New Mexico to Homestead in 1910. He was a Cowboy, the real deal. She moved to California when she married my Grandfather after World War II. My Grandfather was a Mechanical Engineer and he had his own business creating machinery for the Food Industry. He collected boxes from all of the companies he did work for and my Grandma made them into wall hangings for the backyard. Here they still hang as proud and decorative testament to his long hard work in the Food and Produce Industry.






This is the backyard of the house where we have had countless family events. Christmas, Thanksgiving, Easter Egg Hunts, Weddings and Funerals have all been held right here in the backyard.





There are many different types of citrus trees of which we have enjoyed over the years. They are a tribute of sorts to my Grandfather's upbringing in Southern California as the only son of Orange Farmers.






To me my Grandma Edith's home represents a balance of Western rustic charm and classic refinement. Above you can see a direct example of this. Native American Art displayed above all of the silver plated serve ware she used to entertain clients of my Grandfather's when they came to visit on business. How charmed those clients must have been with my Grandmother, one of the most effortlessly charming and poised hostesses I have ever observed.







When I come and visit my Grandma Edith we always do two things: We start a sewing/craft project and go Antique shopping. Edith is one of those unique individuals who can make almost anything with a needle and thread. She spent many of her formative years out on her family's ranch in New Mexico being taught to sew and quilt by her Grandmother,Cora Belle. Cora Belle was a real Southern Belle. She was tough but refined, just like my Grandmother grew up to be. Cora Belle's favorite saying when she had to discipline my Grandmother was "Don't be ugly Edith", it's a Southern way to say "be polite". I am sure you won't be too surprised that my Grandmother has said this same phrase to me from time to time.








The photo above was taken in the living room. Here you can see a fine example of "Vaseline Glass" candlesticks. These candle sticks were a wedding gift to my Great-Grandparents. My Grandma Edith brought them out of storage for me too look at. Although they were not her first choice because of their unique color, she kept them because they were special to her parents. At one time these candlesticks were some of the finest things they owned, she tells me. At night they glow in the dark because of the high mercury content in the glass, they did not know that using chemicals like this in home accessories was not the best idea.

In the background you see one of my Grandma's latest projects, the refinished and reupholstered 1890's rocking chair. She rescued it from an Antique shop in town that was going out of business. This Christmas we all rocked my cousin's newborn daughter in this chair; a once forgotten treasure has a new life and purpose.



And last but certainly not least a photo from the kitchen window. Edith holds up an unexpected flower from a potted cactus. To me this photo says alot about what my Grandmother's greatest gift is. With her careful hands she has made such beauty from what other might think to be nothing at all. To me Grandma's hands are the most powerful hands in the world.